- Intensive Services-


My partner Helena and I offer weekend intensive services for men, women and couples in the areas of sexuality and relationship.



Radically Transform Your Sex Life, Dating Life & Relationships


Who do we work with?

We work with both men and women in the areas of dating, sexuality, and relationships. 


For men:

Our dating coaching focuses on approaching women with confidence, building attraction, and escalation that leads to sex. Our sexuality coaching teaches guys how to be amazing lovers.

We address premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, sexual shame, inability to orgasm, being stuck in your head, maintaining erection, and pleasuring women. We help men be the best lover she ever had.

Our coaching in the area of relationships with women helps men understand deeply what women REALLY want, how to create a deeply nurturing relationship, and how to understand love languages.


For women:

Our dating coaching focuses on attracting the kind of man you want into your life, how to spot the “dick" vs the good man when you’re on a date, and how to build attraction with a man when you’re interested in him.

Our sexuality coaching helps women who are experiencing sex as painful, inability to orgasm, sexual shame, experiencing sexual frustration, being stuck in your head, and pleasuring men. Your skills in the bedroom make a big impact on the quality of the relationship.

We’ll show you how to be the best lover he ever had. Our coaching in the area of relationships with men helps women understand deeply what men REALLY want, how to create a deeply nurturing relationship, and how to understand love languages.


For couples:

We focus on re-igniting the spark in your relationship, bringing back the sexual connection and intimacy, navigating various models of relationship, and creating sexual attraction and long-lasting passion.

We help you understand how to pleasure each other through tantric massage and other techniques, take your sex life to the next level, create a deeply nurturing relationship, how to deepen your connection, understand what the opposite sex REALLY wants, and how to understand love languages.

We address a wide range of sexual issues for men and women. For example, for men we address premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, inability to orgasm, being stuck in your head, and maintaining erection. For women some examples includes addressing experiencing sex as painful, inability to orgasm, sexual shame, sexual frustration, and being stuck in your head.



Who are we?


Helena is one of Australia’s leading sexperts and Tantra teachers. She is a mentor, author, speaker and lover. Helena is a a certified sex therapist, embodied counsellor and Tantra practitioner. She is passionate about helping her clients create amazing sex lives.

Helena is the author of ‘Legendary Lover’, a unique program which outlines her 6-step methodology to make sex both profound and ecstatic.

After years of sexual despair, she finally discovered the life-changing rituals of Tantra. Since then, she has relentlessly pursued knowledge and skill in the fine art of sex, attending training events all over the world and working with a wide range of clients to help them become masterful lovers. 



Dave is a Masculine Empowerment Coach with a passion for helping men address what’s holding them back from living the lives they want in the areas of masculinity, sex and relationships. 

His personal story is one of growing up with sexual repression and working through the effects of that, which led him to deeply explore his own sexuality and masculinity.

He has arrived at a place of living fully in integrity, clear about his purpose in the world, confident in who he is as a sexual being, a highly conscious lover, easily attracting amazing women into his life, and fully committed to the journey of understanding of what women really want in the depths of their hearts and how to give them that.



What does working with us look like?

We custom design powerful weekend intensives for men, women and couples, drawing on our wealth of experience and expertise in the world of sexuality, dating and relationships.

We use a combination of tools and processes from a range of fields including Tantra, Taoism, Sexological Bodywork, Orgasmic Yoga, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Gestalt therapies, Shamanic approaches, Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy, Embodied Counselling,  and much more, to deeply address what’s holding you back from living the life you really want and creating the relationships you desire. 

Working with us is not for the faint-hearted. You’ll face your demons. If you’ve reached out to us, it’s likely you’ve been struggling with something for a long time and you’re desperate to find a way to sort it out. Maybe you’re feeling a sense of helplessness. 

We have good news for you. We can help. We have a track record of success with our clients. Read Tom’s story below:


Tom came to us with severe premature ejaculation issues, anxiety around approaching women, and getting negative feedback from women that was causing him to feel insecure about how he was coming across to women. We custom-designed an intensive weekend for Tom that involved full immersion experiences in approaching women in a non-threatening context, practicing the art of seduction in a dating situation, archetypal visualisations, a number of deep embodiment sessions to address the premature ejaculation and to clear a serious trauma from his early childhood.  

Tom was challenged by the experiences we designed for him, but threw himself 100% into everything. He came away from the weekend with confidence that he could enjoy sex without needing medication to last longer, that his calm and confident energy was very attractive to women, that he now had the skills to take action with women he desired including approaching and building attraction with them, and much greater clarity about what women really want and how to give them that. 

On the Saturday evening of the weekend intensive we took Tom out to a relaxing dance and sound-healing event in Melbourne. Long story short, by the end of the evening Tom had three beautiful women fawning over him, drawn to his energy like moths to the flame. 

To watch Tom speak about the impact the weekend had for him, click on the following link:  




Contact us at dave@davemcdermott.com.au  or 0449895517 



Dave & Helena




“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.”

-       Marianne Williamson